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As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they Lonly. I also wrote a follow up to this lookinv on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with. I'll break this down further below, but their central problem is that they're just really anxiousscared, and inhibited around women.

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Almost all men get somewhat nervous when they have to ask a woman out, or kiss her, or even talk to her for the first time. But when a guy is really shy his nervousness is at a level where it usually prevents him from doing any of those things. It's legitimately strong, not something where they can just take a deep breath and push through it. Sometimes this nervousness shows up as the physical Lonely good looking shy guy of anxiety.

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Initially they manage to come off as calm and charming and make a good impression, but then fall apart when the stakes get higher.

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The reason this happens is that when they first run into that women she's new and they haven't had time to overthink things and attach any nervous feelings to her yet. They'll come away from the interaction feeling excited and optimistic about where things may lead.

However now they have a reason to feel pressured and jittery around her, and that's exactly what happens. The scenario then goes in gkod of the following directions: They're too nervous to talk to her again; They do talk to her, but they're such a withdrawn, obvious wreck that she's bood interested; They talk to her, but are too nervous to be themselves, end up acting like a goofball, and shoot themselves in the foot; They're so nervous that at that immediate moment escaping the anxious symptoms takes precedence over anything else, and they act rude or aloof towards her to purposely sabotage their chance.

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They may never ask them out, or put it off so long that by the time they do they're well into the Friend Zone.

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Unsurprisingly, they're really nervous and hesitant about this as well. Same general discomfort and risk of rejection. They may have a blatant, all-systems-go opportunity where the girl is clearly interested, but they Lonelj manage to go through with it.

There they are, sitting on a couch watching a movie with their date when the credits start to roll. She turns Lonely good looking shy guy face him, looking into his eyes expectantly.

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He returns her gaze and pauses for a moment, and a little longer, and a bit longer still Afterward he's kicking himself for being so spineless. He was trying to work up the nerve to kiss her all evening, and kept Lonely good looking shy guy if now was the right time to do it, but in the end he couldn't pull the trigger.

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And when you're really inexperienced yourself it seems that's pretty much every woman. Part of this comes shh a belief that no girl would be interested in a shy guy if she's had already had a few boyfriends.

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It also goes back to that point I mentioned in the last paragraph about them fearing their inexperience being outed. This hinders a shy guy in two ways. First, they'll often rule out I vant to fuck in Charlotte obviously experienced girls as prospects. Only harmless, innocent-seeming girls don't arouse their fears. But there are only so many women out there who are just as shy, innocent, and inexperienced as them, so it really cuts down their possibilities, and makes them put that much more pressure on themselves when they do find one who fits the description.

Secondly, if they're into a girl, and she seems into them, and she says something that draws attention to her comparatively higher level of experience e. She seems a lot more daunting now. And they figure, why would she want him? Lonely good looking shy guy has experience, he doesn't. It's never work out. With time many anxious guys can Lonely good looking shy guy face their fears and gain enough experience with the opposite sex that they're not as held back by their anxiety as they used to be.

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There's no way she'll be into me now. Dammit, another prospect hasn't panned out. Story of my life. I'll never meet anyone. A lot of what I've mentioned so far hints at this. It's hard to explain, but almost unconsciously shy guys can Lonelj the attitude that in order to get a girlfriend the world has to send them one packaged in such a way that they won't feel anxious or have to do anything that pushes them out of their Lonely good looking shy guy zone.

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The idea that if they want a girlfriend they'll have to actively Sex site encounters for black on finding one, or that they'll have to learn to cope with their nervousnessisn't on the map.

Nope, they just have to meet the perfect girl under the perfect circumstances, where they'll essentially be guided along by rails the whole way with no room to screw up. They have thoughts such as: Maybe in next semester's classes I'll randomly end up sitting beside the person of my dreams", or "Maybe at my job the girl I like will be assigned to work on a project with me all day", or "Maybe this time when I go Lonely good looking shy guy the bar and lookinf stand around all lolking a girl will walk up to me and seduce me.

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