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For instance, placing the fan near the heart meant "I love you", while opening a fan wide meant "Wait for me". In Spain, where the use of fans called "abanicos" is still very popular today, [ when? This use was highly popular during the 19th and early Flirt sex centuries. People flirt for a variety of reasons. Flirting can indicate an interest in a deeper personal relationship with another Flirt sex.

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According to social anthropologist Kate Foxthere are two main types of flirting: This type of flirting does not intend to lead to sexual intercourse or a romantic relationship, but increases the bonds between two people. Flirting with intent plays a role in the mate-selection process.

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In the 21st century flirting is increasingly taking place in instant messaging and other social media. Flirting may consist of stylized gestures, Flirt sex, body languagepostures Flirt sex, and physiologic signs which act as cues to another person.

Among these, at least in Flirt sex societyare:. The effectiveness of Flirt sex of these interactions has been subjected to detailed analysis by Flirt sex psychologistsand advice on their use is available from dating coaches. Flirting varies a great deal from culture to culture. For example, for many western cultures one very common flirting strategy includes eye contact.

However, eye contact can have a very different meaning in some Asian countries, where women might get in trouble if they return a glance to Flirt sex who stare at them. Flirt sex, Chinese and Japanese women are sometimes not expected to initiate eye contact as it could be considered rude and disrespectful. The distance between two people is also important when flirting. People from the "contact cultures", such as those in the Mediterranean or Latin America, may feel comfortable with closer proximity, whereas a British or Northern European person may typically need more space.

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Does she consistently avoid direct eye-contact with men? Does he seem nervous, anxious or aloof in his interactions Flirt sex other women? If so, your target's reluctance to meet your gaze may be nothing personal, and it might be worth approaching, Flir only with considerable caution.

Once you have approached your target, you will need Flirt sex make eye contact again in order to strike up a conversation. As soon as your eyes meet, you may begin Flirt sex speak.

Once a conversation begins, it is normal for eye Beautiful couples wants love Virginia to be broken as the speaker looks away. In Flirt sex, the person who is speaking looks away more than the person who is listening, and turn-taking is governed by a characteristic pattern of looking, eye contact and looking away. So, to signal that you have finished speaking and invite a response, Flirt sex then look back at your target again.

The person speaking will normally Flirt sex at you for less than half this time, and direct eye contact will be intermittent, rarely lasting more than one second. When your target has finished speaking, and expects Flirt sex response, he or she will look at you and make brief eye contact again to indicate that it is your turn.

The basic rules for pleasant conversation Flirt sex The key words here are 'glance' and 'brief': The most common mistake people make when flirting is to overdo the eye contact in a premature attempt to increase intimacy.

This only makes the other person Flirt sex uncomfortable, and may send misleading signals. Some men also blow their chances by carrying on a conversation with a woman's breasts, rather than looking at her face. The distance you keep from the other person when flirting is important, because it will affect his or her impression of you, and the quality of your interaction.

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When Fpirt first Flirt sex an attractive Flirtt, Flirt sex established at least an indication of mutual interest Flirg eye contact, try to make eye contact again at about 4ft away, before moving any closer. At 4 ft about two small steps awayyou are on the borderline between what are known as the 'social zone' 4 to 12 ft and the 'personal zone' 18in to 4ft.

If you receive a positive response at 4ft, move in to 'arm's length' about 2ft 6in. The 'intimate zone' less than 18in is reserved for lovers, family and very close friends. If you are close enough to whisper and be heard, you are probably too close for comfort. These distance rules apply particularly in face-to-face encounters.

We will tolerate reduced interpersonal distances when we are side by side with someone. This is because when you are alongside someone, it is easier to use other aspects of body language, such as turning away or avoiding eye contact, to 'limit' your level of involvement with the other person. You can therefore approach a bit closer than 'arm's length' if you are alongside your target — at the bar counter of a pub, for Flirt sex — rather than face-to-face.

But be careful Flirt sex avoid 'intrusive' body-language such as prolonged Fllrt contact or touching. You may also see 'barrier signals' such Flirt sex folded or tightly crossed legs, or rubbing the neck with the elbow pointed towards you.

If you see any of these signs, back off! Finally, Flitr that different people have different reactions to distance. Flirtt your Hey i am looking for bbw is from a Mediterranean or Latin American country known as the 'contact cultures'he or she may be comfortable with closer distances than a British or Northern European person.

North Americans fall somewhere between these two extremes. Different personality-types may also react differently to your approach: Flirt sex the same person may Flitt in tolerance from day to day, according to mood: Most of us are quite good at Flirt sex our faces Flirt sex maintaining an expression of polite interest, for example, when we are really bored to tears, or even nodding when we really disagree!

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We may be smiling and nodding, but unconsciously revealing our disagreement by a tense posture with tightly folded arms. This is known as 'non-verbal leakage': When flirting, you should therefore watch out for signs of this 'non-verbal se Flirt sex your partner's posture — and try to send the Flirt sex signals with your own posture.

Your Flirt sex 'non-verbal Flirt sex can give you advance warning that your Flirt sex isn't working. Leaning backwards and supporting the head on one hand are signs of boredom. These are signs of attentiveness and interest or liking. Experiments have also shown that females are more likely to Flirt sex their heads to one side when they are interested in the person they are talking Cali guy looking for fresh Austell in fl. Flirt sex should beware, however, of automatically assuming that these signs indicate sexual interest.

Women should be aware of men's tendency to make such assumptions, and avoid signalling interest too obviously. Another positive sign is what psychologists call 'postural Flirt sex or 'postural echo': Mirror-image postural echoes — where Dating mobile in Cataract Wisconsin person's Flirt sex side 'matches' the other person's right side — are the strongest indication of harmony and rapport between the pair.

When flirting, you can also use postural echo to create a feeling of Flirt sex and harmony. Experiments have shown that although people are not consciously aware of someone deliberately 'echoing' their postures, they will evaluate a person who does this more favourably. This technique obviously has its limits. We would Flirt sex suggest, for example, that a woman in a Flirt sex should 'echo' the open-legged sitting posture of her male companion.

But if Flirt sex Dill city OK wife swapping leaning forward with his left forearm resting on the table, she could create a sense of common identity by 'mirroring' this aspect of his posture — leaning forward with her right forearm on the table. In addition to these 'generic' signals of interest, there are specifically male and female posture signals which are often seen in flirtatious encounters.

These tend to be postures which enhance the masculine or dominant appearance Flirt sex the male, and the femininity of the female. Males may adopt postures which make them appear taller, larger and more impressive, such as placing hands in pockets with elbows out to enlarge Flirt sex chest, Elm grove LA sex dating leaning one Flirt sex at above shoulder height on a wall to appear taller and more imposing.

Females either adopt postures which make them look smaller, such as drawing the knees towards the body when seated, or postures which draw attention to physical attributes attractive to males, such as arching the back to Flirt sex the breasts, or crossing and re-crossing the legs to draw attention to them. As well as overall body posture, the gestures we use can signal interest, attraction and invitation — or discomfort, dislike and rejection.

When flirting, it is important to be aware of these non-verbal cues, both in 'reading' your partner's body-language and in controlling the messages you are sending with your own gestures. In conversation, gestures are mainly used to enliven, clarify and 'punctuate' our speech, or to show responsiveness to what the other person is Flirt sex. In a flirtatious encounter, the amount of gesticulation, the directions of the gestures and the co-ordination of gestures Flirt sex indicate the degree of interest and involvement your partner feels towards you.

Different cultures vary widely in the amount of gesticulation that accompanies their speech Italians say that you can silence an Italian by tying his hands behind his backand even within a single culture, some people naturally express themselves more through gestures than others. Generally, however, someone who is interested in you will be more lively and animated in conversation, using more gestures when speaking in order to keep your attention, and more responsive gestures to show interest when you Flirt sex speaking.

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When your partner is speaking, you can show responsiveness by nodding in agreement, throwing Flirt sex your hands in surprise, bringing them together in a 'silent clap' of appreciation, etc. Researchers have found that nodding can be used to 'regulate' conversations. If you make single, brief nods while your Flirt sex is speaking, these act as simple Spend too much tonight of attentiveness, which will maintain the flow of communication from the speaker.

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Double nods will change the rate at which the other person speaks, usually speeding up the flow, Woman looking sex Gripholmen triple nods or single, slow nods often interrupt the flow altogether, confusing speakers so Flirt sex that they stop Flirt sex their tracks.

So, if you want to express interest and keep Flirt sex partner chatting with you, stick to brief single nods. You can also watch for gestures which indicate anxiety and nervousness, such as hand-clasping movements and palm-rubbing. As a general rule, anxious gestures are directed towards the anxious person's own body known as 'proximal' movementswhile 'distal' movements, directed away from the body, are a sign of confidence.

As well as watching for these signals in your partner, you can control the impression you are making by using more confident, 'distal' gestures. As with posture, the Flirt sex involvement and harmony is achieved when gestures are synchronised — when the movements of one person are echoed or reflected by Flirt sex other.

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Men should not assume that it necessarily indicates sexual interest, however. Women can avoid creating this impression by reducing synchronisation, adopting a more 'closed' posture and avoiding the use Flirt sex gestures which Flirt sex specifically associated with flirtatious behaviour.

In experiments, female hair-flipping and head-tossing were Flirt sex the non-contact gestures most often regarded as sexually flirtatious, along with repeated Flirt sex and movements designed to draw attention to the breasts. An ability to 'read' and interpret the facial expressions of your partner will improve your chances of successful flirting, as will awareness of what you are signalling with your own expressions. Some expressions Filrt be effective even from a distance, as in Sec 'across a crowded room' encounter with a stranger.

The 'eyebrow-flash', for seex, which involves raising the eyebrows very briefly — for about one-sixth of a second — is used almost universally as a long-distance greeting signal. When you see someone Flirt sex know, but are not near enough to speak, the eyebrow-flash shows that Nsa Henderson Nevada relationship anyone real on here have noticed and recognised them.

We all use this non-verbal "Hello! Watch a video of Andrew and Fergie's wedding, for example, and you will see that Fergie performs frequent eyebrow-flashes as she walks down the aisle.

Social etiquette does not allow a bride to call out cheery greetings to her friends and relations during the ceremony, but the highly sociable Fergie is clearly unable to refrain Flirt sex signalling the same greetings with her eyebrows. If you are desperate to attract the attention of an attractive stranger across a crowded party, you could try an eyebrow-flash.

This should make your target think that you must be a friend or acquaintance, sez though he or she does not recognise you. When you approach, your target may thus sx be wondering lFirt you are. You can, if you are skilful, use this confusion to initiate a Flirt sex discussion about where you Flirt sex have met before. Such conversations inevitably centre Flirt sex possible shared interests or friends or habits, and invariably involve mutual disclosure of at least some personal information.

As you will learn Flirt sex the 'Verbal flirting' Hosting today for massages of this Guide, these are essential ingredients of successful flirting. So, assuming Fliry target finds you attractive, an eyebrow-flash with appropriate follow-up could leapfrog you into instant intimacy.

Flirt sex warnings are necessary here: Flirt sex Flort target is seex Flirt sex you, this may be Flirt sex evident in facial expressions than in words. Studies have found that women are generally better than men at reading these expressions, but that both sexes have equal difficulty Flitr seeing through people's expressions when Casual Hook Ups Moapa Nevada are controlling their faces to hide their real Flirt sex.

The problem is that although faces do express genuine Flirt sex, any Flirt sex expression that occurs naturally can also be produced artificially for a social purpose.

Smiles and frowns, to take the most obvious examples, can be spontaneous expressions of happiness or anger, but they can also be manufactured as deliberate signals, such as frowning to indicate doubt or displeasure, smiling to signal approval or agreement, etc. Feelings can also be hidden under a 'social' smile, a 'stiff upper lip' or a blank, 'inscrutable' expression. Despite this potential wex 'deceit', we rely more on facial expressions than on any other aspect of body language.

In conversation, we watch our companions' faces rather than their hands or feet, and rely on their facial signals to tell us what effect we are having, and how to interpret what they say. Although people are better Flirt sex controlling Flirt sex facial expressions than other aspects of body language, there is still some 'leakage', and the following clues will help you to detect insincerity.

Let's say your target smiles at you. How do you know whether this smile is spontaneous or manufactured? Fligt are four ways of telling the difference.

First, spontaneous smiles produce characteristic wrinkles around the eyes, which will not appear if your target is 'forcing' a smile out of politeness. Second, 'forced' or 'social' smiles tend to be asymmetrical stronger on the left side of the face in right-handed people and on the right side of the face in left-handed people.

The third clue to insincerity is in the timing Flirrt the smile: Finally, there is a clue in the duration of the smile, as a manufactured smile tends to be held for longer what is often called a 'fixed' smile and then to fade in an irregular way. When observing your target's facial expressions, it is important to remember that although an expressive face — showing amusement, surprise, agreement etc. Women naturally tend to smile more than Flirt sex, for example, and to show emotions more clearly in their facial expressions.

You are also likely to interpret expressions differently Text girls Phoenix on who is making them. Experiments have shown Flirt sex people may read the same expression as 'fear' when they see it on a female face, but Female Fayetteville friend 'anger' when it appears on male face.

There are also cultural and Flirt sex regional differences in the amount of emotion people express with their faces. Oriental people are more likely than Westerners to hide their emotions under a 'blank' expression or a smile, for example, and American researchers have found that in the US, Notherners smile less than people Wife want casual sex Divernon Flirt sex South.

If an attractive stranger smiles at you, it could be that he or she finds you attractive, but he or she could also Flkrt an outgoing, sociable person from a Flirt sex or region in xex smiling is commonplace and not particularly meaningful.

These factors must also be taken into account when considering the effect of your own facial expressions. People tend to be put off by levels of expressiveness that are considerably higher or lower than what they are Looking for a women who loves god to, so it could help to try to 'match' the amount Flrt emotion you express with your face to that of your target.

As a general rule, however, your face should be constantly informative during a flirtatious conversation. Unexpressiveness — a blank, unchanging face — will be interpreted as lack of interest when you are listening and an absence of facial emphasis when you are speaking will be disturbing and off-putting. You need to show interest and Adult wants sex Ludowici Georgia when listening, Flirt sex to promote interest and comprehension when speaking, through facial signals such Flrit eyebrows raised to display surprise, as a question mark or for emphasis; the corners of the mouth turning up in amusement; nodding Sbf still looking Hawaii indicate agreement; frowning in puzzlement; Filrt Flirt sex show approval, or to indicate that what you are saying should not be taken too seriously, and Flirt sex on.

Fortunately, most of these facial signals are habitual, and do not have to be consciously manufactured, but some awareness of your facial expressions Sexy women want sex New Cumberland help you to monitor their effect and make Flirt sex adjustments to put your target more at ease, for example, or hold his or her attention, or increase the level of intimacy.

Finally, remember that your target is unlikely to be scrutinising you for sed signs of insincerity, so a 'social' smile will be infinitely Flift attractive than no smile at all. Touching is a powerful, subtle and complex form of communication. In social situations, the language of touch can be used to convey a surprising variety of messages. Different touches can be used to express agreement, affection, affiliation or attraction; to offer support; to emphasise a point; to call for attention or participation; to guide and direct; to greet; to congratulate; to establish or reinforce power-relations and to negotiate levels of intimacy.

Even Flirt sex most fleeting touch can have a dramatic influence on our perceptions and relationships. Experiments have shown that even a light, brief touch on the arm during a Flirt sex social encounter between strangers has both immediate and lasting positive effects.

Polite requests for help or directions, Flirt sex example, produced much more positive results when accompanied by a light touch on the arm. When flirting, it is therefore important to remember Ladies want nsa OR Haines 97833 the language of touch, if used correctly, can help to advance the relationship, but that inappropriate use of this powerful tool could ruin your chances forever.

Although there are considerable differences between cultures in the levels of touching that are socially acceptable, and different personalities welcome different levels of touching, we can provide a few basic rules-of-thumb for first encounters with strangers of the opposite sex.

The first rule, for both sexes, is: Women are much less comfortable about being touched by an opposite-sex stranger than men, so men should take care to avoid any touches which may seem threatening or over-familiar. Men are inclined to Flirt sex women's friendly gestures as sexual invitations, so women should be equally careful to avoid giving misleading signals with over-familiar touches.

This does Flirt sex mean 'don't touch', as Flirt sex touching will have positive benefits, but touching should initially be restricted to universally acceptable areas and levels. As a Flirt sex rule, the arm is the safest place to touch an opposite-sex stranger.

Back pats are equally non-sexual, but are often perceived as patronising or overbearing. A brief, sexx touch Flirt sex the arm, to draw attention, express support or emphasise a point, is likely to be acceptable and to enhance your companion's positive feelings towards you. Beautiful couples wants sex encounter Essex even this most innocuous of touches produces a negative reaction — such as pulling the arm away, increasing distance, frowning, turning away or other expressions of displeasure or anxiety — you might as well Flirt sex up now.

Unless your companion is exceptionally shy and reserved, negative reactions to a simple arm-touch probably indicate dislike or Flirt sex. If your companion finds you likeable or attractive, Flirt sex brief arm-touch should prompt some reciprocal increase in intimacy.

This may not be as obvious as a return of your arm-touch, but watch for other positive body-language signals, such as increased eye-contact, moving closer to you, more open posture or postural echo, more smiling, etc. Flirt sex arm-touch may even prompt Flirt sex increase in verbal intimacy, so listen Flirt sex any disclosure of personal information, or more Fpirt questions. If you see or hear signs of a positive reaction to your arm-touch, you can, after a reasonable interval, try another arm-touch, this time slightly less fleeting.

If this results in a further escalation of verbal or non-verbal intimacy from your companion, Flirt sex Wives seeking sex Ludlow Falls consider moving to the next stage: Remember that a hand-touch, unless it is the conventional handshake of greeting or parting, is much more personal than an arm-touch. By touching your companion's hand, you are opening negotiations towards a higher degree of intimacy, so keep it light and brief: A negative reaction to your hand-touch, such as Flirt sex non-verbal signals of displeasure or anxiety mentioned above, does not necessarily mean that your companion dislikes you, but it is a Flirt sex indication that your attempt to advance to the next Flirt sex of intimacy is either premature Flirt sex unwelcome.

A very positive reaction, involving a significant increase in verbal or non-verbal intimacy, can be taken as Flirt sex to try another hand-touch at an appropriate moment.

Highly positive reactions to a second hand-touch — such as a definite and unambiguous attempt to move closer to you, reciprocal arm- and hand-touching, along with significantly more personal questions, more disclosure of Flirt sex information and more expression of emotion — can be taken as permission to proceed, with caution, to a higher level of intimacy.

The next stages might involve a hand-squeeze or Fliry, repeated twice before moving on to an arm over the shoulders, or perhaps a brief knee-touch. Males should note, Flirt sex, that positive reactions to any of these touches can not be taken as permission to grope.

You will have noticed that we advise performing each touch two times before progressing to the next level. This is because repeating the same touch, perhaps with a slightly longer duration, allows you to check that reactions are still Fpirt, that you Flirt sex not mistaken in your judgement that the touch was acceptable.

The repetition also tells your companion that the first touch was not accidental or unconscious, that you are consciously negotiating for an increase in intimacy. Repeating the same touch before moving to the Flirt sex level is a non-verbal way of saying "Are you sure?

You may be surprised to see this heading in the 'Non-verbal flirting' section, but 'verbal' means 'words' and vocal signals such as tone of voice, Flirt sex, volume, speed of speech, etc. Flirt sex other words, body-language may be your most important 'flirting tool', but vocal signals come a very close second. An ability to 'read' the vocal signals of the person you are flirting with will also help you Naughty woman want sex tonight La Junta find out how he or she really feels about you.

Attraction Women seeking hot sex Grantwood Village interest, for example, are communicated much more by the tone Flirt sex voice than by Flirt sex is actually said. Depending on the tone, volume, speed and pitch, even a simple phrase such as "Good evening" can convey anything from "Wow, you're gorgeous" to Flirt sex find you totally uninteresting and I'm looking for an excuse to get away from you as quickly as possible".

If your target gives you a deep-toned, Flirt sex pitched, slow, drawn-out "Good evening", with a slight rising intonation at the end, as though asking a question, this is Flirt sex an indication of attraction or at least interest.

If you get a short, high-pitched, clipped "Good Flift, Flirt sex a monotone, expressionless version, sx target is probably not interested in srx. Once you are in conversation, remember that the intonation of even a single word can communicate an immense variety of emotions Flirt sex meanings. As an experiment, try practising variations in your intonation of the one-word response "Yeah", and you will find that you can communicate anything from enthusiastic agreement to grudging Fligt to varying degrees of scepticism to total disbelief.

If you speak in a monotone, with little variation in pitch, pace or tone of Flirt sex, you will be perceived as boring and dull, even swx what you are saying is truly fascinating or exceptionally amusing.

Loud volume, a booming tone and too much Fucked chick at Wichita in pitch will make you seem overbearing. Speak too quietly or too Flirt sex and you will seem submissive or even depressed.

Aim for moderation in volume and tone, with enough variation in pitch and pace to hold your companion's interest. Also remember that a rising or falling intonation, especially when accompanied by a drop in volume, is a 'turn-yielding cue', whereby speakers signal that they have finished Flirt sex they are saying and are ready to listen to the other person.

When you hear these vocal signals, your companion is probably indicating that it Flirt sex your turn to speak. Girls looking for sex Pratt your companion hears these signals, he or she may well assume that you are 'yielding' the floor.

If you Flirt sex end sentences on a rising or falling intonation, with a drop in volume, and then carry on without allowing your companion to speak, he Flirt sex she will become frustrated. Taking your turn Flirt sex your companion has not given any vocal 'turn-yielding cues', even if he or she has finished a sentence, will be perceived as interruption, and is equally irritating.

Although your target's initial impressions of you will Flirt sex more on your appearance, body language and voice than on what you actually say, successful flirting also requires good conversation skills.

The 'art' of verbal flirting is really just a matter of knowing the rules of conversation, the unwritten laws of etiquette governing talking and listening. The best and most enjoyable conversations may seem entirely spontaneous, but the people involved are still obeying rules.

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The difference is that they are following Flirt sex rules automatically, without consciously trying, Flirt sex as skilled, experienced drivers do not Flirt sex think about changing gears.

But understanding how the rules of conversation work — like learning how and when to change gears — will help you to converse more fluently, and flirt more successfully.

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Those males who do take the trouble to improve their conversation skills perhaps by reading this Guide have a definite advantage in the flirting stakes. When the subject of flirting comes Flirt sex, most people seem to be obsessed with the issue of 'opening lines' or 'chat-up lines'.

Men talk about lines that work and lines that have failed; women laugh about men's use of hackneyed or awkward opening lines, and all of us, whether Flirrt admit it or not, would like to find Flirt sex perfect, original, creative way to strike up a conversation with someone we find attractive. The answer, Housewives wants casual sex Boyce Virginia 22620 surprisingly, is that your opening line is really not very important, and all this striving for originality and wit is a wasted effort.

The fact is that conversational 'openers' are rarely original, witty or elegant, and no-one expects them to be so.

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The traditional Flirt sex comment on the weather "Nice day, isn't it? The fact that these comments are phrased as questions, or with a rising 'interrogative' intonation, does not mean that the speaker ssx unsure about the quality of the weather and requires confirmation: In Britain, it is universally understood that Flirf weather-comments have nothing to Fllrt with the weather, and they are universally accepted as conversation-starters.

Saying "Lovely day, isn't it? A friendly responseincluding positive body language, means "Yes, I'll talk to you"; a monosyllabic response accompanied by body-language signalling lack of interest means "No, I don't want to talk to you", and no verbal response at all, with body language signalling annoyance or dislike, means "Shut up and Fkirt away". If you are indoors — say at a party or Flirt sex a bar — and nowhere near a window, Flirt sex equally innocuous general comment on your surroundings "Bit crowded, isn't it?

The words are seex quite unimportant, and there is no Flirt sex in striving to be witty or amusing: This formula Flirh the impersonal interrogative comment — has evolved as the standard method of initiating conversation with strangers because it Flirt sex extremely effective. The non-personal Flirt sex of the comment makes it unthreatening and non-intrusive; the interrogative questioning tone or 'isn't it? There is a big difference between an interrogative comment such as "Terrible weather, eh?

The direct question demands and requires a reply, the interrogative comment allows the other person to respond Flirrt, or Flirt sex respond at all, if he Flirt sex she does not wish to talk to you. In some social contexts — such as those involving sports, hobbies, learning, business or other specific Flirt sex — the assumption of shared interests makes initiating conversation much easier, as your opening line can refer to some aspect of the activity in question.

In some such contexts, there may even be a ritual procedure to follow for initiating conversation with a stranger. At the races, for example, anyone can ask anyone "What's your tip for the next? Unless the context you are in provides such a convenient ritual, use the IIC Impersonal Interrogative Comment formula. This formula can be adapted to Horny dominant older ladies any situation or occasion.

Just Flirt sex a general, impersonal comment on some aspect of the event, activity, circumstances or surroundings, with a rising intonation or 'isn't Flirrt Your target will recognise this as a conversation-starter, and his or her Thick girls in rock hill will tell you immediately whether or not it is welcomed.

There are of course degrees of positive and negative response to an Flirt sex. The elements you need to listen for are length, personalising and questioning. As a general rule, the longer the response, the better. Flirt sex your target responds to your comment with a reply of the same length or longer, this is a good sign.

A personalised response, Flirt sex. Nsa fwb or pussy Tallahassee only personalised response ending in a question or interrogative rising intonation as in "I thought it was supposed to Flirrt up by this afternoon?

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Note that there is nothing original, witty or clever about the Fljrt exchange. You may even be inclined to dismiss it as polite, sexx and insignificant. In fact, a great deal of vital social information has been exchanged. The biggest mistake most people make with opening lines is to try to start a flirtation, rather than simply trying Flirt sex Flirg a conversation.

If you think about your opening line as initiating a conversation, rather than starting a flirtation, use the IIC formula and pay close attention to Women over 40 looking for sex bike Laramie verbal and non-verbal response, you cannot go wrong.

Even if Flirt sex target does not find you attractive and declines your invitation to talk, you will avoid causing offence and you will avoid the humiliation of a direct rejection. Married women seeking casual sex Ormond Beach you have initiated a conversation with your chosen srx, your success in making a favourable impression will depend as much on your social skills as on what you say.

We have probably all met at least one person Flirt sex is highly articulate, witty and amusing, but who loses friends and alienates people by hogging the conversation, not allowing others to get a word in. You may also have come across the equally irritating strong, silent type who makes you do all the 'work' in the conversation — who never asks a question, never expresses interest and makes no effort to keep the conversation flowing.

What you have to say may be Filrt, and you may express it with great eloquence, but if you have not grasped the basic social skills involved in conversational turn-taking, you will be perceived as arrogant and unpleasant, and neither your target nor anyone else will enjoy your company. The basic rule on how much to talk is very simple: The essence Flirt sex a good conversation, and a successful flirtation, is reciprocity: Achieving this reciprocity Flirt sex an understanding of the etiquette of turn-taking, knowing when to take your turn, as well as when and how to 'yield the floor' to your partner.

So, how do you know when it is your turn to speak? Pauses are not necessarily an infallible guide — one study found that the Flirt sex of the average pause during speech was Flirt sex.

In other words, people clearly Flirt sex signals other than pauses to indicate that they had finished speaking. F,irt previous sections of the Guide, we have described in detail the Flirt sex non-verbal signals people use to show that they have sed what they are saying, and that it is your turn to speak. These include eye-contact signals remember that Flirt sex look away more when they are speaking, so Flift they look back at you, this often indicates that it Flirt sex your turn and vocal signals such as rising or falling intonation, with a drop in volume.

Flirt sex may be accompanied by Flirt sex 'turn-yielding' signals, such F,irt the completion of a clause or Flirt sex off' into meaningless expressions such Flirg "you know". As a general rule, the more of these turn-yielding cues occur simultaneously, Foirt Flirt sex likely Flkrt is that your partner has Flirt sex and expects you to speak. Flirt sex and listening for these clues will help you to avoid interrupting, lFirt also to avoid awkward gaps and lengthy pauses in the conversation.

This Guide clearly cannot tell you exactly what to say, what words to use, in a flirtatious conversation, but it is possible to provide some general guidelines on what you talk about, and how you express yourself, particularly in terms of mistakes and pitfalls to avoid.

Negativity, for example, is real turn-off. If you talk too much Flirt sex the bad side of things, and constantly complain about the world or your own problems, your partner will Flirf get bored and fed up.